Weekly Ramble #64

Nobody could have predicted that a pandemic would cause so much fucking stupidity amongst the masses. I want to think that it’s the few that have spread this dumb hysteria to stockpile food. This post was never intended to slam people or the ‘masses’ and first and foremost it’s a check in with all of you because I’m fine, and I hope you are too!

Empty shelves in 2020. What are we doing? Starvation is going to kill us long before some potentially lethal but possibly not flu – anyone else think what the fuck? While everyone seems to be panic buying for the apocalypse, where are the answers to any of this? Why don’t we know anything? To take Ibuprofen or not? Hot weather apparently kills it… Other vaccines or medications could work in helping fight it? I mean are there a bunch of old wives in charge of this thing? At this point I would prefer that; at least we would be comfortable and rational right?

Now that I’ve got my swearing out and vented just a little, I feel semi okay but this is quickly becoming a fight of a generation. People are still not listening. Stay inside unless you’ve got to work or get food. The whole lock down thing, that is a final final resort because it will kill the economy. Countries who have imposed it have done for the better of their people as opposed to GDP’s. The people running the show are probably just as miffed as we are about it all.

Over here in the UK a lock down would probably be pretty difficult to enforce. The schools close today – a sad realisation that there are some kids who won’t take their final exams this summer and finish school like they deserve. Teachers taken away from their calling. So so many jobs rely on places being open. This whole damn deal is such a mess but in this trying time, we’ve got to be strong, we must look out for one another, the older generation who are apparently susceptible to this thing need protecting; they raised us after all so now it’s our turn to help them. To those working in all walks of medical; they will be the real heroes in all of this,

I’m trying desperately to carry on with my normal schedule. Somehow I finished reading a book earlier this week and put up a review. Editing is 75% done of Darke Awakening and I fully intend to publish it this September. This is going to be the new normal for a while and so I will be checking in regularly via this ramble series from now on.

Wherever you are in the world, tell me about what’s going on? We have to be together in this no matter where we are. What’s happening?  

 

 

 

 

 

 

Good news can always be found, somewhere.

Humanity had a bad weekend. It seems like bad events such as the one in Paris are becoming more and more frequent. Most of us won’t be able to do anything that could help a situation that unfolded but instead we find ways of processing and paying tribute.

There are no words that could possibly describe what those innocent people went through and there is no justification for those who inflicted such diabolical acts. Life will find a way of being the judge.

As humans we do the best to process. Many who use facebook took the opportunity to pay tributes by covering their profile picture with a French flag. Many others vented via tweets and statuses.

The downside of humanity is sometimes the action we take. However the upside is our reaction we have as people. In extreme situations of danger people commit heroic acts to keep sometimes complete strangers safe from harm. That itself should be celebrated, but that doesn’t bring back those who undeservedly lost their lives. Sometimes in order to process and think about what is going on in the world we look a little closer to home.

Turn it back on yourself for just a moment and you can realise compared to those people who faced shear terror on Friday your life isn’t that bad. That’s how I process stuff like this because there isn’t really any other way for me. Sure we can live in paranoia that we are going be next but that isn’t living. None of us should in fact live in fear, we should all have hope that things are going to be ok and that is what humanity is to me.

You may be in a shitty situation at work or home. Money may be your biggest worry or the car you drive may not make the next view miles down the road. This road is in fact long and winding. All of those things mentioned find ways of resolve but are in fact minor problems compared to others.

‘One day you are on top of the world and one day you are the clown’ says one of my favourite vocalists Chris Daughtry in a particular song called start of something good.

To me that means one day you will be ahead and one day you will be behind. Just be glad you are in the race because those people on Friday were taken before their time. What better way to pay a tribute than to go out and make something of your life.

Without sounding too preachy my life is exactly as Chris Daughtry sings that song. ‘Things might work out how they should’.

I take a closer look at myself and things are good. Very recently I started a new job across departments at work. This decision is turning out to be the best I have ever made in my life, but work for me wasn’t always great, neither was my car and money situation. What’s money I still ask?

There once was a time where I said I’m a writer and had no content to show for it. Right now I sit here typing with a brand new book ready to be edited and then hopefully self published next year. After finding an editor and someone who can help publicise it (he says).

Good news can always be found somewhere but if it can’t make some of your own. We as people are powerful beings, just the power of words can change society. Although there isn’t anything we can do to bring back those many good people who left us in Paris, we can sure dedicate ourselves to appreciating and making the most of what we have. That is our life and our humanity.

Not many of us will ever win anything big. I personally haven’t won anything particularly big but the little victories, there’s something I specialise in and savour. I’m surrounded by good friends and people who make this life better to be in.

Its been a difficult but very rewarding year for me. The seeds have already been planted to make 2016 blossom into something good. It’s never too late to grow your own good news.

 

robin quote

 

 

 

Humanity : Overrated

This past week in fact this past summer anybody with or without an internet connection knows that there is a massive amount of migration happening. People no longer feel safe in their conflict torn homes and are on the move. Men, women, children and families of people finding any means necessary to get away from the horrors of what their homes have become. Our basic human instinct is to escape any type of conflict especially to protect the ones we love. Sometimes that means taking huge risks in getting across borders and aiming for places where there is less conflict.

A few days ago I saw a photo that really defined the world we live in and the humanity or lack of that is apparent. A child washed up on a beach. Someone’s child who was probably promised a better life and that is was going to be ok. Much of the civilised and conflict free world are currently arguing about what to do, as always. It really hit home to me that these people, who are people like me and you are just trying to make a better life for themselves and their families.

People are currently arguing whether or not these people should be ‘let’ in. Of course there’s the overcrowding debate and where are you going to fit thousands of people? It isn’t long before the religious card is pulled and certain migrants of a certain religion apparently can’t be trusted. Then there’s the simple mindedness of ‘keeping Britain British’. Unfortunately that ship sailed here ironically, generations ago and all good economies and societies are made up of many different people from different places.  The immigration debate here in the uk comes from the subject not being handled right from the beginning. Politicians are aware of the past and wont want to repeat it so they are treading lightly.

At least one of my grandparents and probably a lot of yours were involved in some level of war or conflict in their lives. They defended their countries unconditionally with many never returning. They didn’t fight to keep Britain British or America American as an example; they fought for everyone to have a right to freedom. To stop other nations becoming war zones so they could live in peace.

If this is done right then these people need to be given a chance, hell they probably have something to offer. They are people after all, people who have trades, education and abilities to contribute to society.

Sure everyone can put a multi-coloured flag across their Facebook profile picture that’s ok and a show of the times moving on. But that picture of the young child washed up on a beach really brings it home. These people need help and like everyone they need a chance.

 

Censorship of graphic imagery and videos

What I have noticed as of recent is mainly parents complaining of the graphic and sometimes brutal images and videos put up on social media. Including the child washed up and the American news reporter being shot. Unfortunately most of the time people can’t moderate what they see online. When news does break it’s normally from a camera phone these days, on twitter.

People have complained numerous times about exposing this stuff to their kids. Social media is like a democracy, you can leave when you like and I thought Facebook was for adults mainly. Complaining to the highest of hells won’t get you anywhere. And we all want to protect the people we love but sooner or later they are going to realise what this world is like.